The Bridal Bouquet
The bridal bouquet has origins deep in history. The Roman bride and groom would wear garlands around their necks to symbolise long life and fertility. Strong smelling flowers, garlic and herbs would be worn to ward off evil spirits which were thought to be ever present and bad luck.
History of the Bouquet
During the plague in England when it was thought the plague was carried
by the wind and bad smells, people would wear strong smelling spices and
herbs to drive away the infection. The bridal bouquet symbolised a maid
in bloom and the flowers she chose related to smell, colour and decoration,
and could be recalled later on when the couple would come accross the same
smell, to bring back memories of their happy day.
on. Today the flowers in the bouquet are a wonderful display of colour and
smell, chosen carefully by the bride to enhance the look she wishes to create.
Throwing the Bouquet
This is thought to have originated in America and is usual in the UK nowadays.
The bride would throw the bouquet over her shoulder, to be caught by a single
female friend and it would mean that she would be the next one to marry.
Equally, the groom could throw his buttonhole over his shoulder towards
his single male friends, and the same could apply.
This is a way of spreading the good fortune and joy of the happy couple to their friends.
More relevant articles
• The Language of Flowers
• Wedding Flowers Checklist
The Victorian Bouquet
In Victorian times, the language of flowers was first used by lovers to
send messages to each other using different flowers, each one having it's
own meaning.
For example, red roses are known as a symbol of love which everyone would recognise. Put them together with freesia which means trust and fern which means sincerity and fasciation, and there is a message for all to see. "I sincerely love and trust you and you fascinate me."
If you are interested in the Language of Flowers please visit the relevant page to find out more. On the other hand, if you want to make sure you don't forget any of the floral details for your big day, take a look at the Wedding Flowers Checklist.
Tip
When choosing your bouquet, make sure that the overall display does not
obliterate the view of your wedding dress. Some of the traditional designs
are very large and heavy to handle but look beautiful. Make sure that you
can cope with the weight. After waiting while the photographer takes the
numerous photos, you arm will get very tired. It is important that the bouquet
is prominent in the pictures so you be relaxed while carrying it.
There are so many different styles available that there is one to suit every
taste. Take your time and enjoy the experience. Obviously you are going
to think about the colours in the bouquet, and the co-ordinating effect
with the bridesmaids, but also think about the smell. The lovely smell of
freesias or roses will linger in the church, chapel or hotel, long after
you and your guests have departed.